Category Archives: Abusive relations

abusive relationship is a pattern of abusive and coercive behaviors used to maintain power and control over a former or current intimate partner. It can be emotional, financial, sexual or physical and can include threats, isolation, and intimidation

SHE IS MORE THAN WHAT YOU THINK

BY DAYAN MASINDE This is to the gentlemen who think that a woman’s role is confined in the home or she is destined to be a house wife and nothing more, that marriage and motherhood should mean the death of … Continue reading

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DIVORCE WHAT YOU LOVE

She was so warm, funny and beautiful. She made him happier than he had ever been. One night he drove her to the fanciest restaurant in town and popped the question, “Will you marry me?” Terry was elated; with teary … Continue reading

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YOUR MAN MY MAN

He only belongs to you when you are with him in the house but immediately he gets out of your house he is mine or rather ours. I know what I can do to men. I know the kind of … Continue reading

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HIS DEATH MY HAPPINESS

Messages are flooding in on my phone, a whole heap of ‘sorry’s’ and ‘You are in my prayers’. With every vibration of my phone, I take a look and shrug wondering what to write back. My job gave me some … Continue reading

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EAT EVERYTHING AVAILABLE

I have done some really stupid things in life, most of which i am not proud of. I had never been a good guy, I never cared for anyone other than myself. This one happened one year ago when I … Continue reading

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HE CHOOSES WIFE PUBLICLY BY TESTING THE GIRLS’ VIRGINITY

Did you know that king of Swaziland choose a wife publicly every year in the month of August, and the lady must be virgin this is done according to their tradition. In the Swazi Reed Dance Festival where he parades … Continue reading

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HE DOES BETTER THAN MY HUBBY

I am 29 years old, and have been married for 10 years, My husband had been the first guy I have been with sexually and I always believed in faithfulness, for the past 7 years of my marriage I had … Continue reading

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MISTAKEN PREGNANCY

I have been married for 10 years. My husband abused me emotionally he always says that I am an ugly person and he deserve a beautiful woman. When I first got pregnant he said you need to abort and terminate … Continue reading

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TERRIFIC NIGHT WITH MY BOYFRIEND

My name is Peris Finny, one day I found myself surrounded with family, covered in bandages, connected to machines, with tubes down my throat, praying and thanking God for saving my life. Hours before this moment I was lying alone … Continue reading

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Dating Violence

A tender smile crosses Sylvia Kate’s face when she checks her smartphone and notices a text message from her fiance. She lights up when she speaks about him, praising him for being patient and kind, and stepping in to be … Continue reading

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